I often have people contact me who wonder if they too, could receive messages from spirit.

The first thing they ask me is how did I know I had this ability, and did I have someone teach me to do it.

First let me explain about the different types of awareness.  Each of us have the gift of intuition and we can strengthen that and use it to help us in our daily lives.  That gift is already in all of us. 

Some people have psychic ability.  The “third eye” which is the gift of special knowledge....

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Having a psychic ability comes with an enormous amount of responsibility.  It is my belief that the Divine God gave some of us this gift, hoping we would use it only for the greater good. Unfortunately, I often find that not to be the case whether it is intentional or not.

I find it frustrating when I hear the stories of a Psychic or Medium who tells people things that are dark, frightening and sometimes dangerous.  These people are not working in the light of all that is good.

In all the r...

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I can’t begin to tell you how many times I am confronted by people I have known at some point in my life, who didn’t know that I am a Medium.  It usually happens at a local store or I will get an email that an acquaintance spoke to another acquaintance and I was the subject of the conversation.    I have to say I am often surprised by the different reactions I get.  Oddly enough, the most common are anger and hurt.  

They often mention how hurt they are, because I knew they were strugg...

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I collect clowns.  Some people find it scary because they have a fear of clowns and the very thought of a room full of clown paintings or figurines will no doubt bring on a nightmare or two.

I also collect art but it has to be something that moves me and I find myself sticking with the same artists time and time again.

One afternoon about 30 years ago, I was walking with my husband through a local store, shopping for a new television.  I was stopped in my tracks by a painting I saw at the...

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I have had an overwhelming number of people reach out to me recently, many with the same question: “Where are you?”

I admit I have been absent from public life for awhile, but I assure you, I am still here.

Being a full time caregiver, my priorities are focused on the one person that needs me the most and everyone and everything else, comes after that.

This time of year is exceptionally hard for a lot of us.  It is suppose to be a special time for laughter and joy and memories and li...

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One of the first questions I am asked when someone learns that I am a Medium is how long have I had this ability?

I have memories of visitations as far back as the age of 4.  One of the first things I remember was a weekend at my Grandma's house.  It was my bedtime and like most kids that age, I did not want to go to sleep.   It was a small two bedroom house and I loved it there. I always felt safe and loved. The door to the bedroom was open which meant that I could see into the living roo...

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It’s been some time since my last blog post and although I would like to say its’s because I have been enjoying the summer and traveling about, the truth is, sometimes I just don’t feel like I have anything to say that others can relate to.  Believe it or not, I am a very private person and for me to even have a webpage, let alone tell personal stories and details, is rather difficult for me.

But this morning I when I woke, I was guided to write about the topic of visitations from sp...

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Before I came out of the psychic closet, I had tested the waters with several people over the years.  I knew after discussions with some, that I was often surprised by the closed minds of those who I thought would be open and the open minds of those I assumed were closed.

There were several times I came close to telling my secret to a few people but something would trigger the fear in me and I would shut down the subject of conversation before I took the chance.

Recently, some of the peop...

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I am often contacted by people who believe they have a poltergeist or some demonic presence in their home or office.  They often ask me to visit their home and tell them what I see and feel.

Unfortunately, as much as I would like to help them, I won’t.  

When I made the decision to go public with my ability I also had to decide what my boundaries were when offering my services to help others.

There is an enormous amount of responsibility that comes with being given this gift.  I kno...

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Being a Medium sometimes allows me to identify the intentions of others.

I am often able to know upon meeting someone if they have good intentions in their heart or if they mean to cause pain to another.

Several years ago I had a close friend who I consider a soul mate.  We worked together and knew each other quite well.  He was single, good looking and a genuine nice guy.

One day he came to work and told me that he had run into an old girlfriend.  He said that she called him later and a...

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Most everyone has come across a photograph they have taken only to find a round, sometimes bright, ball or sphere somewhere in it.  For years I thought they were a water mark or a reflection of some kind. Until I learned more about my gift, I didn’t realize that this ball of light or color is the energy of a spirit.

 

Several years ago I began taking photos while trying to communicate with the spirits around me.  Sometimes I know who is near and other times, I just feel a presence an...

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A conversation came up not long ago after some friends of mine were watching a television show called Long Island Medium.  It is based on the daily life of a Medium named Theresa Caputo.

 

I have never met Theresa but I have watched her show and I do feel that she is very gifted.  Some are put off by her but I believe that is more because of her blunt personality than because of her gift. 

The editing of a television show can make it appear that a Medium is always correct in their me...

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Not long ago I received an email from a former co-worker informing me that a building I had worked in for over 20 years was being torn down.  The email included a photo of the destruction that had begun.

I immediately had a labyrinth of mixed emotions.  I was happy that I was free from that place and yet felt a twinge of sadness at the same time.

 

I hadn’t been inside the building since I quit my job about 5 years ago.  I was so happy to leave.  I was starting a new life, the life I...

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When the Souls want to be heard, they will find a way to get through. 

I will change the names in this story as to protect privacy.

One evening about two years ago, a Medium friend of mine called to catch up.  While during our conversation he asked me who Ted and Sara are.  I told him that I didn’t know anyone by those names.  He told me that a man in Spirit named Ted was trying to reach me and that he was insistent that I listen.  He said I had been ignoring his attempts to connect to me....

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Each Medium receives messages in their own way according to their individual ability.  I am able to receive messages by clairaudience (clear hearing), clairambiance (clear smelling) clairgustance (clear tasting… definitely not my favorite of the abilities) but my strongest gifts are by clairvoyance (clear seeing) clairsentience (clear feeling) and claircognizance (clear knowing). I am also clairtangent which means I can hold an object and connect to the emotions of the person it bel...

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It’s been quite some time since I have blogged.  I have had a strange year and a half and I’ve spent all of it focused on my family.

 

For awhile now I have thought about writing and I wondered what topics to mention and at times I felt that nothing I had to say was anything anyone would want to read, besides the fact that I tend to ramble and end up off subject lol.
So again I put it off.

 

This morning while going about my daily chores, the thought crossed my mind again and thi...

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Residual energy

 

Everyone handles grief in their own way.  Some people find it easier to donate the belongings of their loved ones soon after they pass.  Others hang on to them for years, even keeping their clothes in the closet long after they have passed.

 

There is no right or wrong way. It’s whatever feels best for you.  However, it is suggested by many grief counselors that it is best not to make any major decisions, such as selling a home or moving to another place, for ...

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Forgiveness…. Yes.. that thing we are all suppose to do in order to achieve access to the kingdom of God.  Well I am sorry to say that I am a work in progress.

 
I know I have wronged others in the past. None of us are perfect.  But I have tried to think of all those who I might have offended or hurt and apologize to them. And above all, to make sure I never hurt them again.

But there are those people in our lives who have done us wrong and we forgive them, only to have them do it a...

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“I heard my tear hit the pillow before I even realized I was crying”.

 

I read that comment the other day and thought how perfectly it resonated with me.

 

My Dad passed over 7 years ago and although they say it gets easier over time, I don’t believe that to be true.  I think we learn how to handle our grief in whatever way we can, but I don’t believe that the pain and emptiness ever really gets better.

 

We each eventually find that “place”.  It’s almost a saf...

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I have found that many people have no idea what a soul mate is.  Many believe that a soul mate has to be someone of the opposite sex who we either fall in love with, or whom we have a romantic relationship.

The truth is, we all have soul mates and in fact, most people have several.

So far in my life, I have been blessed enough to know some of mine.  I am sure there are others which I have yet to meet or I may never recognize on this journey.

We all travel throughout our different lifetim...

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I have received several emails asking where I have been and why I haven’t been updating my blog.  Don’t worry; I haven’t been abducted by aliens…. Not yet anyway lol.

I am keenly aware that we are put on this earth for a reason and we have many lessons to learn while we experience this physical world, some not to our own liking. J

I am one of those people who are always reminding others that everything happens for a reason, but in all honesty, I admit I am a person who looks at ...

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Eilat Stone: 

This semi-precious stone's healing abilities are due to the elements which comprise Eilat stone.  An unusual stone with the ability to create, store and conduct energy. It also can maintain this activity for many, many years. This stone also has an uncanny ability to absorb many types of pain.
 
Excellant for healing emotional and physical aspects of the Heart chakra (including the lungs) and Throat Chakra.

Eilat is unique because when it's placed on the Solar Plexus Chakra, it alig...

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 I love Turquoise and I love wearing it both in jewelry and in color.  In fact, the first ring I ever received from a boy was turquoise.   I was 15, and my high school flame at the time was Dave.  It was a flower shaped ring with a big ole chunk of turquoise in the center.  I didn’t particularly care for the ring itself, but I loved the stone.  Unfortunately, my ring and I would soon be parted when not long before he dumped me for a girl who was more. …well.. “Popular” if you get m...

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Judgment

 

A little over 5 years ago, my best friend passed away.  “My Jimmy”, as I always called him, was a good looking, strong, talented man, who had charisma like no one else.  He had a beautiful body and a beautiful spirit and when he walked into a room, everyone stopped what they were doing and looked at him.   He had more friends than anyone I have ever known, but for me, Jimmy was my best friend.

He was the first person on the scene when someone needed help and he gave of h...

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I have several people contact me for psychic readings.  These are not the same as medium-ship readings.   I understand the desire for answers to the problems most everyone is dealing with.  From questions about the economy and surviving the mortgage crisis to wondering if loved ones in the military will soon be home safe. 

 

Last summer, someone close to me was in a new romance.  She asked me about his feelings and if they were genuine and if and how things would evolve into something se...

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I am able to receive information and messages for others but sometimes it is difficult to connect to some of those who have passed from my own life.  So every once in a while, I will have a reading of my own by a few favorite mediums.

In my personal readings I often receive visits from spirits who I do not recognize.  For years I have been visited by a Maggie, Hanna, John and William and Elizabeth.  I have yet to figure out who most of these souls were in relation to my life.  But each time I ...
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A stone for grounding and centering the energies of the Root or Base Chakra. The color for the Root Chakra is red or black. When this Chakra is open and balanced, you feel in good health and connected with your physical body.  This Chakra gives you determination, grounds you and helps you to survive in the physical realms. Red is a projecting stone, which helps to destroy disease, strengthen, help with courage, and promote physical energy,  good luck, and success. Red stones are used for prot...

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I have been receiving numerous emails with questions about crystals and their healing properties along with questions about mediumship and how to recognize the ability in children. I just wanted to say "Thank you" for your kind words and for your interest in my ability and my experiences.  Please feel free to keep the questions coming.  I will be more than happy to help address your concerns and give guidance when needed.
Have a wonderful week.

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Larimar is a soft, sky-blue, Caribbean healing stone.  Larimar brings tranquility of sea and air. Soothes fear, depression, pain. Helps with self-expression, patience, acceptance, simplicity and is a great stone for artists.  Especially helps with creativity.
 
A cooling stone, it draws out inflammation, fevers, sunburn and heat. Very good for the Throat Chakra. Helps shoulder, thyroid, and nose.  Pleasantly uplifts the heart and eases stress.

This stone can be used in the Northeast for self-cu...
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It is true that most children can see those in spirit.  Some carry the ability with them throughout their lives and others become immune to the visions around the age of 5 as society tells them that their "imaginary friend" is simply that.. .imagined.
I have had many experiences with this, even with members of my own family.  You can learn a lot by sitting back and observing the children, even babies.
Many times, parents will assume their baby is just looking at a light or a ceiling fan, howeve...
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We all know someone who lives their life as a victim.  It can be a family member, friend, or coworker. 

I have known so many people who want to place blame on others for their own life situations.  I mean, after all, isn’t it easier to blame someone else instead of taking responsibility for your own actions?   People do not want to admit that they make bad decisions, act inappropriately or cause drama, so they blame everyone else for their disappointments and misfortunes.

I have hea...

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The stone of emotional expression, howlite can be used to facilitate awareness, encourage calm communication by combining reason with patience and observation. Howlite gently absorbs and uplifts stress, tension, anxiety and emotional intensity due to emotional imbalance. Howlite works by helping one to build decency of character. It shows us how to be less selfish, confrontational and less critical. This is a good stone to help eliminate rage and anger. Howlite increases action, dissolves hes...

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A Gentle, soothing, blue green stone.  Excellent for the Heart Chakra. It flushes and heals heart blocks such as loss, hurt, guilt, fear.  Allows flexibility, self-forgiveness, peace of heart, patience. Keeps one in light, love, and healing. Works on Throat chakra by expressing feelings, verbal and artistic creativity.  Helps thyroid, blood sugar, and emotional balance. High conductivity from copper draws out pain, heat, fevers, inflammations, arthritis.  Excellent therapeutic assistance f...

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This stone is most known for healing, meditation and wisdom.   Used for expression of ideas and logic.  This stone works on the throat and brow chakras.  It can strongly affect changes in attitude about yourself.  Helps you be more objective and less critical about ways of dealing with existence.  It is a good stone for studying. The stone should be worn or carried around with you for a long period of time in order to reap the full benefits. 
Known for balancing body energy levels via thyroid...
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Related to Emerald and Aquamarine. Clear/soft pink to violet, translucent to clear. Inspires spiritual lovingness, compassion, equality, upliftment, empathy, patience. Spiritual Heart Chakra. Also heart, lungs, breathing, throat, oxygenation. One of the highest frequency stones available.

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During a full moon is one of the best times to charge your crystals. Put them in a place where the moonlight will be upon them.
You should clean them about once a week with the exception of citrine which is a self cleaning stone.
To clean them of negative energy, simply hold them under running water for about a minute. Or you can put them on top of a bowl of tumbled hematite for a couple of days.

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Apache Tears, also known as Black Obsidian  are said to bring good luck to those who possess them.  Black Obsidian is a powerful meditation stone. The purpose of this stone is to bring to light that which is hidden from the concious mind. It is used at the root chakra for grounding and protection.  Eases and releases pain, loss, sadness, anger and to help heal and go on with ones life.   A stone for looking within and finding protection and purpose.  Gently grounds and unblocks lower body and...
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During the healing phase you may have many signs of "ill feeling". Might I add, any illness should be checked by a doctor before relating it to spiritual development.
To name a few of the symptoms you might encounter; fatigue, irritability, nausea, confusion, bouts of crying, feeling lightheaded along with loss of appetite and extreme loneliness.
This will be a difficult time for you, so the more you work at removing the negative energy from your life, the faster you will move through this pha...
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Once you have started to pay attention to the signs I mentioned in my last blog, you can gain acceptance and know that you are receiving communication from the other side.
The next step is the most important, healing. The spirits will begin to work with you and "through" you to release old "baggage" that is no longer useful to your soul.  This way of lightening your load, will help you receive the higher vibrations that spirit uses to communicate.  This process can take some time.  The length ...
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How do you know if spirit is trying to communicate with you?  Here are a few things that I, and many other mediums have encountered on our journey through spiritual progression.

Hearing someone call your name.

Hearing "things".  Knocks, banging, tapping, whispering.

Hearing "white noise" or high pitched tones.

Finding things, losing things.

Seeing things out of the corner of your eye.

Seeing orbs and flashes of light.

Having vivid dreams and waking with a "mission".

You feel you are not alone.  Feeli...
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I have been told there is a club.  Maybe you have heard of it.  It's an elite club and you cannot be in it, until you are in it.  It's a club I never wanted to be in.  It's called the Dead Fathers club. 
I was blessed to have my Dad for most of my adult life, but I have several friends who lost their Dads when they were still very young girls.  I cannot explain what it feels like from a son's point of view, but I can say that being a girl who lost her Daddy, that sense of security is gone.  M...
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